Sunday, January 26, 2025

"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 34

Something I learned the hard way is if a relationship has to be a secret to remain in it, you should not be in it period...Make peace with your past so it will not cause issues in your present.  Never compare your life with someone elses.  You have no idea what that person's journey has been about.  People tend to try and make comparisons like that, and it really makes no sense.  There are no two people out there who have come to this planet with the same story or things to learn while here.  So that is futile.
When struggling in life, take a deep breath; take several deep breathes.  It will instantly calm you and make you feel better.  Try not to take yourself too seriously.  However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
Time heals most everything, so give time time...
You are the only one in charge of your own happiness.  Do not think of someone else or some temporary situation as the reason for being unhappy.  
Envy is a waste of time; accept what you already have, not what you think you need.
And too, if all of us threw our problems in one big pile and could see everyone else's, we would more than likely grab ours back.  Think about this, any disaster that comes, is any of it going to matter in five years?  No, it isn't.  Every issue we face is only temporary.  Life seems unfair at times, but life is still a wonderful gift.  Anything can change in the blink of an eye.  Believe in miracles...
Life is too short; enjoy it!
It's ok to get angry with God;  that is human nature and He can take it.  No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
To cry,  is very healing.  To cry with someone else is even more healing.  It is perfectly fine to let your children see you cry.  One time while crying hard, I held onto my pet and hugged him up close.  It was one of the most healing cries I have ever had.
Try to get outside as much as you possibly can.  Staying indoors too much will put you in a sad mood.  
Forgive those who have done wrong towards you.  Forgiveness is for your good, not theirs.  Forgiving that person does not mean you have to forget.
I promise you, the best is yet to come.
God loves you because of who He is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
Show up for life and make the most of it now.  All that matters in the end is that you loved.
 






No comments: