"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 29

 Intuition is a very powerful gift that God supplies to all of us. Always stay vigilant, keep those eyes wide open when meeting a new person.  Some things to watch for when starting a new relationship would be.. do they have curiosity about you and want to learn more about you,  do they enjoy spending time with you, do they remember things that are important to you,  do they apologize when necessary and try to correct bad behavior,  they prioritize you and your relationship, also, do they treat their mother with love and respect, they are empathetic and they get excited about your goals.  

There are always things you should not ignore when getting to know them better.

Not one of us is perfect, however, some red flags should never be overlooked.  Its where that god given intuition comes into play.  There are very important reasons for it.  Listen to it when it tells you something is off about someone; Intuition does not lie.

Your body will literally reject those who you are not meant to have in your life.  Take notice of those feelings.  Do you feel safe around the person, or do you have an uneasy reaction to being around them?  When choosing your own peace of mind, there  may be people out there who delight in guilt tripping you for the decisions you have made. 

Some things you might can say to them in response and still remain respectful would be:

I understand your perspective, however, I need to stick to my boundaries, or, it's important for me to stay true to myself, or,

I need for you to respect my choices.  Do not let someone railroad you into what they want you to do unless it is realistically the best option.

When you have been blessed with a good partner in life, always remember to  compliment them.  Tell them how special they are; how much you care for them, how they feel like home to you and make you feel safe.  Never take them for granted a single moment.

Every relationship can get a little boring after being together for many years but it is important for both partners to keep the relationship new and fresh.  If the relationship is important to you, you will never fail in doing this very thing.

All couples have arguments.

Its all in the way you handle things and verbalize your feelings afterward.  You want a partner, first of all, that will never give up on you.  God intends for two people to have that unconditional love for one another.  With that kind of love for each other, a couple can  work through alot of things.  Love is about teamwork.  A woman taking care of the man in her life and a man taking care of his woman as well.  Work together in solving any issues.

6 things to always remember within a relationship:

LISTEN MORE, SPEAK LESS

STAY LOYAL, NO MATTER THE STORM

SAY I AM SORRY AND MEAN IT

BE HONEST ABOUT MONEY

MAKE DATE NIGHTS NON- NEGOTIABLE

CHEER EACH OTHER ON ALWAYS

When  two people meant for each other always have each other's back they could be unstoppable...

A TRUE POWER COUPLE...