If you have something truly valuable to share with the world, it will come through your personality; your authenticity. This is your spark of identity; your divinity that sets you apart and makes you different from any other living creature. Do not ever compare yourself with others. Many fears are born out of these type comparisons. Nurture your strength of spirit; do not cause yourself distress over such matters. You have a right to be here just as the other person does. Whether or not it is exactly clear to you at the time, have no doubt that the universe is unfolding just as it should be. Whatever your aspirations in this chaotic world, keep peace within your soul. Your authenticity is your quality of being genuine; when your actions and expressions align with your true self, values and beliefs. That is when you are true to your core self and not conforming to outside expectations. You need to act from your own authority and forge your own path in life. There should be an alignment between your inner self and the actions you take. Do not deviate from that balance because of external pressures or social conformity.
I am speaking directly to myself as well. In the past, during my first marriage, I changed myself to try and make the marriage succeed. Matter of fact, it was to such an extreme, once the relationship was overwith, I had to learn who I was. I certainly didn't recognize myself. I built my existence around his identity as if I was not an individual, and pushed my wants and needs into the background. This was a very hard thing to work through after being in this marriage for twenty years. If I had only known then what I was truly doing to myself, I would hopefully have done things differently. I did anything I had to to keep the peace in our home. I wore a mask, so that no one else knew about how bad it was. Rather than speaking up as I should have, I let things go.
I pray all of you take my words to heart. To hide the real you only causes more heartache in the end.
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