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Having a heart of service means having a mindset of genuine desire to help others; to meet their needs.  Having a strong character of selflessness, empathy, humility and a focus on others' wellbeing rather than one's own gain.  It involves having a willingness to go the extra mile, and do what is necessary without complaint, contributing to the good of the community through acts of kindness, support and care without expecting anything in return.  

Cultivating a servant's heart can be developed through small acts of kindness and focusing on your gratitude.  An humble heart is imperative to servanthood.  

Try shifting your perspective from 'I have to' to 'I get to.'  Acts of service are a privilege, not a chore.  This shift can turn an obligation into a new opportunity to be greatful in your life.

Key characteristics of a servant's heart would be empathy, humility and deeply understanding and connecting with others.  Be a good listener.  Fostering a sense of togetherness, along with that deep understanding of other's needs and working together, managing resources responsibly for the greater good of all, is key. A leader having a servant's heart, works hard and sets an example for those around them.  Empathy is an important trait of a leader with a servant's heart.  It gives them the special ability to understand what others are thinking and feeling.  A person with a servant's heart speaks with power.  They love what the Creator loves and they seek God's purposes while inspiring trust.  They are a spiritual healer.  

Honor is found in giving, not receiving; greatness being displayed in serving, not being served.  Take it to heart.

May Each One Be Blessed,

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We were created divine beings.  If we, as those divine beings, accept the light that God gives rather than choosing to remain in darkness, our soul can become peaceful.  We are infinite souls and can become insightful and very intuitive through our connection with the Creator.  You will see things much more clearly and think much more clearly in any given circumstance which requires your complete attention.

You will have expanded your awareness to where you can trust your decisions and can live a totally authentic life.  I have an intuition that is so strong, it allows me to know quickly whether I am listening to someone speak the truth or relaying a fabrication.

Being able to alchemize and transmute energy from a negative to a positive and my intuition are two of my most powerful gifts.  I even surprise myself sometimes.

I am a clairsentient healer.  I have 'clear feeling' that gives me the ability to read emotional and spiritual energy.  With this wonderful, God-given ability, I can provide healing and support for those who need it.

I act as a highly sensitive instrument tuning myself into the  feelings, intentions and energies of a person.  I can offer guidance, comfort and an emotional spiritual balance for those who need it.  Being clairsentient, I receive clear psychic information through the body.  The physical manifestations I get can be a gut intuition, chills, tingling and a unique vibration in my body.  

Until recently, I had still questioned my exact purpose, however, it has become very clear to me now of what my calling truly is.  It gives me so much happiness to know I will use these 'spiritual gifts' God has activated within me, to help others with their soul's imbalances, reconnect with the source of creation and bring them back; back into the light, and out of there internal darkness.

Prayers To You All,

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"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 126

You are worthy of the love you desire.  The higher you bring your vibrational frequency, you will start to attract someone that matches your frequency.  You are worthy and have always been worthy of a love, but not just any love...deep love.  

Plant the seeds of love by stating to the universe, in great detail, what you want in your life, and want in a partner. When your frequency is vibrating high, the universe has no choice but to bring that love into your existence that will match and balance your life.  Low-vibrational people, are those who are not healed yet.  Thats why you draw a low-vibrational person towards you when you are still vibrating in a low frequency yourself.

So speak that great truth of exactly what you want.  You will manifest it into existence.  Call forth a partner with shared dreams, someone who aligns with your higher self.  Love is a spiritual journey.  Invite someone into your life who enhances your being and values you and your authenticity.  Love's energy will be your guiding light;  it will upgrade all relationships you have in your life.

Only you are responsible for who you allow into your life.  Do not accept someone who gives you constant red flags; pay close attention, use your intuition to guide you.

There are alot of people out there that are just meant as a karmic lesson for you to teach you what is 'Not Good' to have in your life; to learn that you deserve so much more.  This is why some of us have been married more than once.  They are sent to help you learn lessons.  Each of us have many lessons we came here to learn. A karmic relationship is a relationship that does not last but is, however, very important to our growth.

Do not forget to love yourself.  You will not be able to love someone else correctly, without first loving you.  Honor yourself and be greatful for the person you are becoming.  You were created a divine vessel of love and light.  God is with you no matter where you are.  Let Him guide you into your purpose;

We all have a purpose in life.  Allow Him to teach you to love yourself and others unconditionally. Let the beauty that God has created, inspire you in your creativity.  By taking baby steps to go inside yourself to connect with God, talk to Him and tell Him what you desire in your life.  Keep yourself in a higher vibration and just watch the amazing results.

I Love You All,

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Be greatful for all things you see, all things that you know and all the many things you experience.

Be greatful that you are alive during this time.  We are magnificent creations of the universe and are all loved unconditionally by this universe.  I doubt if you have given it much thought.  Our lives are a constant flow of activity.  You may be experiencing a period of time where your heart is not feeling it, however, we are all celestial beings with unlimited potential.  We are all divine co-creators with the universe.  You are worthy and have always been worthy...

Why?...because the universe created you and created you to create.  Open yourselves up to  knowledge, insight and wisdom.  We never stop our capacity to learn.  We were created to honor sacred light in all our fellow beings.  

We are life.

We are beautiful.

We are important.

We are all special individuals.

We are each one unique.

We are a wonderful part of

     creation.

And we are all equipped with

     God-given talent.

Forgive yourself for your mistakes, pick yourself up and keep moving ahead in life.  We all make mistakes.  It is part of being human and learning lessons in unconditional love; and that is why we are here.  Instead of bashing yourself, give yourself grace.  Give yourself love and compassion.  At one time or another in our lives, we get involved in some situations that are not for our highest good.  Take those situations, learn from them and keep moving ahead.  Love yourself without conditions as you would anyone else you dearly love.  Choose that compassion towards yourself and release judging yourself because of it.  Love yourself, and love the person you are becoming.  Focus on the abundance of love already present in your life; not any thoughts of lack.

Honor your ambitions and go after your dreams.  You are worthy of having what you dream of in your reality.  

Get motivated and feel confident that you will have it.  Think positive thoughts about already having the life you want.  

Feel peace knowing the universe has your back.  You are supported by the universe.  

We are all blessed beyond measure and our Creator has given us powerful creativity that flows from us like a river.  We all have spiritual gifts within us to give the world.  Release any barriers you have built within you,  keeping you from having the abundant life you deserve.

Live in Perfect Peace.

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We have the power to heal ourselves.  You can literally manifest better health.  We were all created to create.  With the fact that we manifest our thoughts and the life we want, you can literally create anything for yourself.  

I have mentioned to my children many times, if you keep a negative mindset, that is exactly what you will draw towards you.

You must speak to yourself with positivity, love and kindness.  Whatever we think or speak is brought into our life because of the lower vibration you are in.  Positives equal a higher vibration, negatives keep you in a low vibration.  Balance your energy and you will raise your vibration, automatically bringing positive higher vibrational outcomes into your life. 

To manifest better health for yourself focus your intentions by using affirmations in a journal, speaking them outloud or both, as I do.  Use vivid visualizations of yourself in an optimal state of wellness.  Practice being greatful every day for your body's abilities.  Release any limiting  beliefs and negative emotions that can hinder your progress.

Use these mental techniques along with your daily self-care to support a positive mindset.

Begin a regiment of healthy habits that balances with your vision of vibrant health.  Allow your positive thoughts about health to guide you into making healthier choices.   Never focus on lack in your current reality,  but when writing or speaking your affirmations, be specific in what you want by speaking as though you already have it.  Be patient with the process and TRUST IN YOUR ABILITY to manifest positive outcomes.

SUCCESS TO YOU ALL,

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"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 123

Never stop believing in your dreams.  Your deepest desires can be yours, but it is necessary that you believe with everything in you, that you will receive them.   For all of us going through hard times, we must remember things will not be this way forever.  Our lives change.  Better times are ahead.

Have the faith, trust and confidence that it will come about.  

Believe it as though you already have it.

Whatever your vibrational frequency is, you attract things to you that will match that frequency.  

To raise your vibrational frequency, maintain a mindset of peace, joy and positivity. Things such as gratitude, spending time in nature, meditation practices, eating healthy foods, exercising and surrounding yourself with  positive people and experiences will improve your vibration and raise your frequency.  Shifting from low frequency emotions like fear to a higher frequency such as love can and will shift your energetic state.

Consciously count your blessings to shift your focus from a lack mentality to being greatful;  improving your mood and overall happiness.  

Cultivating more positive thinking will automatically align you with higher frequencies.  Being kind and spreading positivity naturally elevates your energetic vibration.  Avoid negative people that will instantly lower your energy. Avoid listening to negative media.  

One of the most important things we must do is forgive those who have wronged us; not necessarily for them but for you.

Hanging on to the negativity associated with this type trauma is a very heavy burden to bare.

Eating healthier, consuming whole foods, fresh fruits and vegetables, nourish your body in the way it needs.  Drink plenty of fluids and stay hydrated. This flushes bad toxins from your body.  These things strengthen your support system, and the improvement of your energetic vibration.

Moving your body also releases

stagnant energy and boosts that energetic frequency.  

Engage yourself in creative activities; painting, writing, singing...that sort of thing.

Listen to high vibrational music or podcasts to raise your energetic environment.

Practice being still.  It is within this meditative stillness you are able to connect to the Creator.  It calms you and relieves stress within you.  Slowing down your mind will cause wonderful things to occur.

I write the things I desire in my journal, writing them as though I already have them.  I speak them outloud often verbally affirming my thoughts and desires.

Once you start understanding that you attract things into your life that match your vibration, you will begin to realize why things are not happening the way you want them to.   You are stuck in a lower vibrational frequency.  YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE THAT.

RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY AND CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER.

BELIEVE...

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Inverse correlation behavior is when a person has this quality of being more generous under pressure rather than being selfish.  They show deeper compassion when wounded and does not retalliate with cruelty. I am one of those people.  I will tell you though, I have not always been.  In the past, if someone hurt me, I would go out of my way to get back at that person.  Not anymore.  Having a personal close relationship with the Divine has taught me to have a loving calmness about me. This is the relationship between two variables, where the increase in one variable results in a decrease in the other.

Another example could be seen between depression and marital satisfaction;  when marital satisfaction increases, depression decreases.  It is certainly so.  

An important point I am trying to make for you is this.  An increase in one's spiritual awareness comes about by going inside yourself and then in turn, this will lessen the negativity you put out into the world: more light, less darkness.  It's really that simple.  Learning to love each other unconditionally, regardless of whether a person's life path is different from yours, whether or not they hurt you, or there are racial differences between you. Hate is a taught behavior.

Whether you want to believe it or not, we are all on a level playing field.  We and every other living thing are ALL connected.  We are all a part of ONE energetic field.  

All a person needs to do is look up at a beautiful night sky lit up with brilliant endless stars to know they are a part of something much greater.  It humbles you.

When you allow the creator to bring out the light from within you, it lessens the dark's hold over you.  It brightens everything about you and brightens your influence on everyone else around you.

It is the Divine's guidance in our lives which guides both individuals and events.

God Bless You All,

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PTSD or post traumatic stress disorder is a mental health condition which is brought on by an extremely stressful or frightening event in one's life, either by being part of the event or witnessing it.   Symptoms may include flashbacks, nightmares, severe anxiety and uncontollable thought patterns in regard to the traumatic event.  People who go through traumatic events may have a hard time adjusting or coping for a while.  With time and taking good care of themselves, they usually get better.  For those few whose symptoms become worse instead of better, they will lose their ability to function in their daily routines.  The disorder usually starts within about three months of the traumatic situation.  When it affects your ability to function in society, help will have to be sought out.

PTSD symptoms are put into four different groups:

Intrusive Memories

Avoidance

Negative Changes in Thinking

      and Mood

And

Changes in Physical or         

     Emotional Reactions

We hear mostly it seems, of the PTSD symptom of Intrusive Memories among the people returning from war.  So many of these victims end up living on the street because of not being able to cope in their everyday lives once they have returned.  It's such a sad thing to think about.  These traumatic memories can resurface over and over again as though playing on a loop within their mind. For some, it may be actually reliving the event as flashbacks.  They can have severely disturbing dreams as well.  Intrusive thinking in regard to traumatic events can and will cause severe emotional distress.

Many people who have been through something terrible tend to push it continuously out of their mind as though it would just go away.  It rarely does.  If you avoid the emotional pain you are experiencing, whether you are aware of it or not, by just continuing to be avoidant of the event all together, it can cause a  downward spiral into a deep depression that is hard to recover from.  They could want to distance themselves from places, activities or people that remind them of the trauma.

 Symptoms of changes in thinking come about as negative self-talk and negativity towards others as well.  They even could begin thinking negatively about the world in general. A person will start to carry negative emotions such as fear, guilt, blame, anger or shame.  They can feel emotionally numb.  They can start feeling detached from their family and friends and lose interest in things they once enjoyed.  People who have been through such a traumatic experience can have a difficult time feeling positive emotion.

When someone experiences changes in physical and emotional reaction, they will be easily startled,  have self-destructive behavior, trouble concentrating, trouble sleeping, sexual dysfunction and anger outbursts.  Physical reactions in their body such as sweating, shaking and/or rapid heartbeat can occur.

PTSD symptoms can become worse if you are already generally stressed, even though you are not feeling stressed within the post traumatic stress dynamic.

These issues are some of the most important that people need to heal,  as we just keep piling more trauma on to an already  overwhelmed heart.  There are many of us who have childhood traumas that have never been dealt with.  This was something I needed to work on, for sure, and I did.  I am clear of it today.

This is a necessary part of helping yourself heal spiritually.  Trust me when I tell you, you have no idea how heavy this has  been to carry within you for so many years.  I feel like a new person, since I've healed my shadows, as they are called. The traumas literally make your whole body heavy with pain.

Through meditation, call on the Creator to help you get started with your healing today.

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Problems arise in life when you allow money to become the main focus of your life.  God does not care whether we have wealth and possessions.  The problem lies in keeping it in it's proper perspective.  We are to keep first things first.  Otherwise you wake up one day amidst all those possessions and realize you have lost your desire for God.  Losing that desire for spiritual things is called "quenching the spirit."  This is something that happens within the heart of a greedy person, which is why Jesus said, "seek ye first the kingdom of heaven; and all these things shall be added unto you."

An abundant life refers to having spiritual fullness, joy and purpose, rather than just material wealth and physical existence.  That abundance consists of a strong relationship with God, a deep inner fullfillment and the fruit of the spirit; the fruit of the spirit being love, joy and peace.  It is not about living a life free of challenges, but a life full of strength, hope and grace through your divine provision and personal effort.

Look to your spiritual fulfillment.

Look to a life which is full and satisfying; not dependent on money or material things.  Balance and ground yourself in a connection with God.  A stronger foundation you will not find.

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We eventually have to gracefully surrender the things of our youth.  We need to nurture the strength of our spirit to shield us from our misfortunes.  Be gentle with yourselves however, you are still a child of the universe.  There is nothing wrong with the younger generation that twenty years won't cure.  😁🙄

Nothing is ever turned into light and power until it is tunneled.  And by that I mean no life ever grows until it is focused, dedicated and disciplined. 

The trouble with some people is that they will never admit their faults.  Heck! I would admit mine if I had any...

The Lord sometimes takes us into troubled waters, not to destroy us, but to cleanse us and make us stronger.  Your perception of our Creator and His ways;  well...their not our ways and it leaves us confused.  The way you perceive things is very important to receiving clarity in circumstances.  It is always a good thing to give yourself a different way of looking at things.  Wisdom 

is knowing what to do with what you know.  Our greatest underdeveloped territory is our mind.  Ideas are all those wonderful things we dream of but never put into action.  For your ideas to work, you have to put the work in.  

To label someone a failure isn't at all fair though...  The person just started at the bottom and found they liked it there.  

Some of the best and most beautiful things we have in this world, are at there core, something dreamed of and their ideals put into action. Usually it is something aspired to that gives it's creator great happiness in sharing it with the world.

When you feel you are at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on... 

God never closes one door without opening another one.

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"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 118

The phrase "Gift of Laughter" refers to the profound impact and numerous benefits laughter has in our lives.  It is a precious resource that can heal, connect people and provide a more positive perspective.  Sharing a laugh creates a bond between people by breaking down social barriers.  Laughter is understood across all age groups, genders, languages and cultures.  It serves as a rare, universal human experience.  Laughter can provide a psychological distance from difficult situations or events giving  you the chance to step back and better deal with the circumstances.  Laughter can help a person find that shred of hope in a dark time.  It crowds tension out of our lives.  It adds joy to our work and play bringing courage for you to try again.  Laughter helps us see our personal problems with a new perspective.  Laughter builds strength and can also aid digestion.  It will quicken the mind.  It definitely mellows the mind and renews our faith in our fellowman.  Laughter is contagious, spreads contentment, gives the heartsick new hope, makes friends and converts enemies.

Remember, laughing is ALWAYS WITH and NOT AT.

Laughter is the mark of the positive spirit, of a warm and loving heart; the badge of the person who gets along well with others.

Laughter is something that we truly take for granted.  The great "Gift of Laughter" is most assuredly a wonderful resource, a magical gift from our creator to help bring us out of the darkness...

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"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 117

God's perfect timing (divine timing) is the belief that God orchestrates events in the universe according to His perfect plan and scheduling;  just not necessarily when we expect them to.  This concept requires faith and patience, trusting that His divine wisdom and will for our lives is most beneficial in our circumstances, even if the reasons aren't  immediately apparent. God's timing reflects His ultimate control over all things and His intimately being involved in human lives.  God's infinite knowledge and power allow Him to see the bigger picture and orchestrate the events in our lives, flawlessly.  I cannot count the number of times I did not know where the money for food or bills was going to come from, when to my astonishment, a check would miraculously appear in the mailbox.  There is no such thing as a coincidence.  God watches out for our wellbeing, that is for sure.  I believe each and every one of us have experienced something similar.  He has a timetable for everything; He is never in a hurry but Always right on time for His will and purpose in our lives.  We all remember praying for  the healing for friends and family or a number of different things or situations. It felt like our prayers just went unanswered and we were left confused and unclear.  The world around you just kept moving on while leaving you in a place you did not want to be.  We all want good things to happen in our lives but we want it NOW...  We all need growth in the area of trusting God.  If you are missing joy and peace within, then you most likely are lacking trust in Him.  Learning to trust God is without a doubt one of the largest lessons we all need to learn while journeying through life.  This is not easy and it requires a conscious daily commitment to surrender your life to Him.  It can, however, be one of the most freeing and peaceful lessons you can learn.

THERE IS AN APPOINTED TIME FOR EVERYTHING AND A RIGHT TIME FOR EVERY EVENT UNDER HEAVEN.

Ecclesiastes 3:1

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If you have something truly valuable to share with the world, it will come through your personality; your authenticity.  This is your spark of identity; your divinity that sets you apart and makes you different from any other living creature.  Do not ever compare yourself with others.  Many fears are born out of these type comparisons.  Nurture your strength of spirit;  do not cause yourself distress over such matters.  You have a right to be here just as the other person does.  Whether or not it is exactly clear to you at the time, have no doubt that the universe is unfolding just as it should be.  Whatever your aspirations in this chaotic world, keep peace within your soul.  Your authenticity is your quality of being genuine; when your actions and expressions align with your true self, values and beliefs.  That is when you are true to your core self and not conforming to outside expectations.  You need to act from your own authority and forge your own path in life.  There should be an alignment between your inner self and the actions you take.  Do not deviate from that balance because of external pressures or social conformity.

I am speaking directly to myself as well.  In the past, during my first marriage, I changed myself to try and make the marriage succeed.  Matter of fact, it was to such an extreme, once the relationship was overwith, I had to learn who I was.  I certainly didn't recognize myself.  I built my existence around his identity as if I was not an individual, and pushed my wants and needs into the background. This was a very hard thing to work through after being in this marriage for twenty years.  If I had only known then what I was truly doing to myself, I would hopefully have done things differently.  I did anything I had to to keep the peace in our home.  I wore a mask, so that no one else knew about how bad it was.  Rather than speaking up as I should have, I let things go.  

I pray all of you take my words to heart.  To hide the real you only causes more heartache in the end.

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Trust in God to weave your life's thread into a wonderfully magical fulfilling web, even though you cannot see it yet.  Have an unshakable faith within you that God will finish what he started.  Believe in His promises.

Have an unwavering commitment to your beliefs.  Remain firm and stable in spite of any challenges or doubts.  It involves having a deep trust in God's plan for your life, a willingness to  rely on His plan and having a life characterized by consistent spiritual stability and action, rather than being swayed by external pressures or changing emotions.  

Trust in God even though you do not fully understand His plan.  Know that you can make a habit of relying on God's strength.  Be willing to endure, practice humility and give up the need for instant gratification.  Favor lasting faithfulness by learning to pursue God even when the feelings of His presence may seem distant to you.  He wants you to have that unshakable faith that He is always with you through all the highs and lows of your life.  He will never leave you, nor forsake you.  One of my favorite Bible verses is Isaiah 41:10 which says:

Fear not, for I am with you:

Be not dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.

This is a very powerful passage which offers comfort and blessed assurance of His promise to be present with His people, strengthening them and giving them support through difficulties; urging you to not be afraid or anxious. Fear is our natural response to challenges of the unknown, however we can rest in the fact that NOTHING, but nothing, takes our Sovereign God by surprise. 

Friends, Rely On Him, Always,

God Bless You All,

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"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 114

What are the building blocks of life or death?  Your words are.  The words you speak set the cornerstone of your reality.  Circumstances and conditions are subject to change, but with the support of the words you speak, you can establish them in your life forever.  We all live within the confines of the boundary you create with your own words.

A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good;  an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil:  for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.

Luke 6:45 

Your own words can truthfully change your immune system for the better or the worse.  The words you speak are vital to your health and well-being.  So many of us tell ourselves often, "I feel terrible" or "my body hurts." Without knowing it, we are creating a reality within us.  We must speak the language of health to our bodies.  God's words are infused into us, by giving voice to His Word by our own mouths and THIS is the language of health to our bodies.  Affirmations of God's Word in faith WILL build up your immune system.  Medical science aids healing physically by administering medicine.

God's Divine healing is Spiritual and administered through the spirit.  When the Word of God is engrafted into your spirit, it produces results in the body as well.  When you speak God's words from the heart, your faith gives substance to His promises. Speak the word of faith to your body.  Speak as though you already have your healing.  Our bodies were created with the ability to heal itself.  When you are sick, do not deny you're sick, but do not constantly tell yourself you are.  Your body will respond to your voice.

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Inner child wounds have been experienced by so many of us.  They are buried oh so deep.

Usually they are wounds that inevitably take the longest to bring to the surface and heal.

These are emotional and psychological, caused from 

bad childhood experiences.  These wounds can stem from a single incident or ongoing experiences that leave emotional scars.  Emotional wounding is the most common type of childhood trauma coming from  dismissed or ignored emotions.

It then becomes very difficult for the person to maintain any emotional stability.

They are:

1   Abandonment

2   Guilt

3.  Trust 

4   Neglect

5.  Humiliation

6.  Betrayal and

7.  Injustice

With an abandonment wound you feel left out, you fear being left, you hate being left alone, you are co-dependent, you will threaten to leave and are most definitely attracting emotionally unavailable people as well.

Guilt wounds make you feel overall bad, you do not like to ask for things, you use guilt to manipulate others to get what you want,  you are afraid to set any boundaries with others, and you normally attract people who make you feel guilty.

With a trust wound you are afraid of being hurt, you definitely do not trust yourself, you will go out of your way to find reasons to not trust someone else.  You feel very insecure and need alot of external validation.  You do not feel safe and usually attract other people who do not feel safe when with you either.

Neglect wounds cause a person to struggle to let things go, you have very low self-esteem and will get angry very easily.  This person will struggle to say "no".

They repress their emotions and fear being vulnerable.  They often attract others who do not appreciate them or make them feel seen...

Humiliation wounding is when a child has dealt with constant criticism and embarrassment.  Parents instill fear within them.

This leads to paranoia, despair and depression.

Having a childhood betrayal wound is caused by parents never keeping their promises to the child; so much inconsistency that leads to a difficuly in trusting people and forming healthy relationships.  They are always waiting for the next disappointment.

A child's deep-seated feelings of unfairness or imbalance within their early experiences is what is known as an injustice wound.  It arises when a child experiences unfair treatment, harsh discipline or being held to unrealistic standards.  An upbringing by parents who are cold and authoritative burden their children with a disrespectful educational style and most assuredly cause harm emotionally as well as psychologically.

These facts will help you get understanding on how adults have become the people they are.  Things experienced in their early formative years cause many wounds that can remain for a lifetime.

When we go inside ourselves and find strength within to pull these repressed memories to the surface, they can then be dealt with, healed and finally released to never harm our present reality.

I Love You All,

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