"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 44

A true heartfelt love is respecting the other person;  showing regard for the other person's worth.  This refers to all kinds of relationships we have within our lives.  Valuing the person's feelings and views regardless of whether you agree with them or not is very important.  You have to show respect for other people in order to come out of any disagreement unscathed.  Instead of demanding things or responses, be honest with them and be someone who can come to a mutual agreement; and expect the same from the other person. Never hurt someone on purpose; upholding the basic right that everyone has to make their own choices and feel safe.  Be a good listener. Try your best to understand their point of view.  Express your needs and wants in a calm respectful manner.

Letting people know you appreciate them goes a long way.  Give a person their space if they need it.  If someone shares something personal with you, keep it private.  Ensure your humor is sensitive to other people's feelings and never embarass someone.  Speak directly to others and do not talk behind their back.  Do not ever attack someone's character.  Do not spread rumours just because you hear the information from someone you trust;  go directly to the source to get the truth if there is something you need to know.  A respectful relationship between two people contributes to your growth and self confidence.  It also promotes healthy self-expression, enabling you to feel accepted and free to be yourself.  Being able to be your authentic self with someone else helps a person feel encouraged, valued, safe and understood.  This mutual respect for each other leads to 

a childlike happiness within

your soul.