"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 42

A loving heart always leaves an unforgettable impact.  People will remember the one who carries a positive loving energy within them.  Actually, they are impossible to forget.  Love is a powerful emotion that brings comfort, great joy and happiness into our lives along with a strength in difficult times.  The great love for others I feel in my heart has been with me all my life; it didn't take me long though to figure out that the love inside me was something that made me different.  Not everyone felt the same way I did. No matter how bad a person could be perceived to be, I will usually be someone who gives reasons as to why they may be like that and it could be about what they may be going through.  There is good in all of us.  It is just that some people, through having so much unhealed trauma, have taken a detour away from their happiness by way of a negative mindset.  When a person is unhappy themselves, they tend to treat others badly.  Even though they may not realize it, there is hope by first healing all the deep hurt they are unconsciously hanging on to. When they connect to their creator by going inside themselves they will have God's help in healing.  At that time, a person will be ready to love in the way God intends for us to.

Love means much more than the idea we think of

When using the words "I Love You."  It means much more than the way people use it every day.

Love is not just the way someone makes you feel.  It involves the whole person not just their emotions.  Love is all about finding the truth of love in all the different type relationships we have during our lifetime.  Love IS the reason we are here; going through different relationship lessons with the people who come and go from our lives to reach the ultimate goal...unconditional love... a love given freely with no strings attached; a compassionate love.  

Love is truly the only thing that brings absolute happiness to us.

Unconditional love is a selfless act of caring without expecting anything in return.  I know alot of you are wondering... how is that  even possible.  When someone hurts you, it seems so much easier just to turn your back and hold a grudge.  Well, there you go, that's why we go through lifetimes of these lessons.  We will eventually get there, and then at that time, we will graduate and not have to return to earth again, but will be able to return to our individual planetary homes.

Unconditional love is never changing and has no bounds; such as the love our Heavenly Father has for us.  It is a relationship goal that applies to our family, friends and lovers.  It is loving without an ulterior motive or unspoken expectation.  Caring for someone's happiness without concern for how it benefits you.

There are many ways you can

show unconditional love:

Considering their needs before your own,

Showing empathy for someone when they are feeling down,

Celebrating with them when things are going well,

Telling them how important they are to you,

Being patient with their shortcomings,

Giving them space when they need it,

And supporting them through difficult times.

It is a love that remains steady,

regardless of the circumstances or the imperfections of the other person.

For all of us, IT IS the ultimate goal here,

 A WORK IN PROGRESS...