"OUT OF THE DARKNESS" POST 112

Starting over in a renewed relationship after awakening that has healed your hearts, can give the relationship a second chance, with God as your foundation.  This kind of strong foundation with the creator at the center of your relationship gives a special connection what it needs, to remain strong and also grow.  Without it, neither one have the strength to power through life as we know it to be.  It refers back to the man who built his house upon the rock rather than on the sand.  Shifting sand has no foundation under it at all.  In a situation like that, one difficult circumstance can come along in this person's life and it would be all that it would take to tear them down.  Things are constantly changing and unpredictable.  It takes strength and a strong foundation to manuever through the ebb and flows of life.  Our creator knew this fact.  He knew it would take patience, but in choosing to wait for the one that is divinely guided into your life, makes all the difference.  One thing I have learned from experience is to never chase after love.  You have to realize your own worth.  If the other person does not put effort into the relationship, it just will not work.  If you are the only one pouring into the relationship,  save yourself time and heartache, walk away from it now.  Do not prolong  the inevitable.  You need to heal.  Go within yourself and ask yourself why you feel you must have that person's love and that no one else is ever going to love you.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  I know, without any doubt, there are great numbers of people who remain in unhealthy, toxic partnerships because they believe they are not worthy of a healthy relationship.  You are worthy and have always been worthy.  Life can have you so beat down that you believe you could never have the life and relationship of your dreams.  You have to heal all past traumas you have experienced.  I personally had to spend the better part of my life  surviving two marriages that were wrong before I could heal all my past trauma I had buried deeply and allow the love of my life to enter my life. It goes much deeper than just marriages.  It could have been a falling out with a sister, brother, mother or friend.  Our pent up traumas stack up and up and up, unless you begin your healing.  Some people have no understanding of how to get themselves out of this funk.  Lean on the one who is always beside you and loves you unconditionally, whether you believe it or not.  There is no better feeling than being able to let go of all the negative in your life and start living in the bright positive light of the Divine.

I Love You All,

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